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And when I say ‘listen’, I don’t mean looking up and over your device or not being present in the moment. I mean really listening – focusing on the person you are sharing that moment with.  Effective listening; without distraction.

When we think about mentoring, it is easy to imagine wisdom being passed from one person to another.

While guidance and experience certainly have their place, some of the most powerful mentoring happens not through speaking, but through listening.

In a world that moves quickly and where information, entertainment and communication demand constant attention, being fully present for another person is becoming an increasingly valuable quality.

Whether it is a teacher with a student, an older student supporting a younger peer, a coach with a team member, a parent with a child, or a friend with a friend, meaningful connections are built when people feel heard, seen and understood. That is why our ability to slow down, listen deeply and engage thoughtfully with people and ideas is more important than ever.

The most influential mentors are those who take the time to listen carefully, ask thoughtful questions and create an environment where others feel safe to explore ideas, face challenges and discover their own path forward. Their presence communicates that you matter, and your voice deserves to be heard.

At Trinity, mentoring takes many forms, formal and informal. It can be seen in classrooms, on the sporting field, in music rehearsals, in the outdoors and in countless everyday interactions. These moments may seem small, but they leave a lasting impact. They help young people develop the confidence to take on challenges, the resilience to navigate setbacks and the self-belief to grow.

As we reflect on the theme of mentoring in this edition of The Grammarian, it is worth remembering that every single one of us has the capacity to influence the lives of others.

We do not need a title or special expertise. Sometimes, the greatest difference we can make is simply to slow down, give someone our undivided attention and be fully present.

In an increasingly distracted world, that may be one of the greatest gifts we can offer.